Episode show notes
This week’s episode of the Soulfully Confident Podcast is from my Alignment to Succeed Webinar. I put this webinar together to share all the success I had in my first year of business financially and personally. In this episode, I want to show you how I went through this success in a fun, easy, and trusting way instead of going through the hustle and stress that usually comes along with reaching six figures.
But before we dive right in, let me introduce myself in case this is your first visit. Welcome to the Soulfully Confident Podcast! I’m your host, Emily Elizabeth, creator of the Soulfully Abundant Group Coaching program and certified Life Coach. This podcast is for the person who feels insecure, lost, and wants more from life but feels stuck. It is for the person who is ready to claim their confidence, self-worth, and take back control of their life. In this podcast, we will cover topics including self-love, managing your emotions, reconnecting in your relationships, and even manifestation. Remember, you are loved, you are worthy, and you are so capable of anything you want to achieve. Let’s jump in!
Check out the points below to learn more about how I achieved six figures in my first year of business. For even more details on each point, listen to ALL of episode 58 of the Soulfully Confident Podcast on your preferred streaming platform!
First secret to alignment: Don’t be such an asshole to yourself.
I’ve recognized that MANY people are very mean to themselves and don't even realize it. (Maybe this is you) but these types of people slip into negative thinking a lot and they say certain things to themselves in an innocent way.
Here’s the truth: If you're being an asshole to yourself, you're NOT going to get to where you want to be orrrrrr you’re going to get there a lot slower.
This is my question for you…
What is your daily self-talk like? Are you kind or mean to yourself?
I want you to really think about this question. Dive deep into your thoughts and see if you're kind and uplifting to yourself.
Recognize how capable, loved, and smart you are. Now don’t get me wrong… this is DEFINITELY a step-by-step process.
This is what the process entails:
Stepping into awareness and becoming aware of who you are and what you want to be.
Pay attention to how you speak to yourself and if you believe the thoughts you're coming up with.
Once you become aware, you start to uncover the beliefs that actually serve you.
The more often you are in a state of love, appreciation, gratitude, the MORE you’ll feel good.
In this FREE 3 day training, I will share with you exactly how I went FROM: insecure, 'fake it until I make it' mentality, and very lost in my relationship TO: crushing my goals, feeling in control of my emotions, totally empowered to go after what I want, and to being in a truly secure and satisfying relationship.
Second secret to alignment: Stepping into more empowering beliefs.
This is what I do every day to achieve empowering beliefs:
Journal
Prayer
Gratitude
Meditation
I promise, these four steps will change your life. Even if you already feel a lot of gratitude, it should feel automatic and intentional.
Give yourself a moment to relax your mind!
Think of your daily habits and beliefs and ask yourself if they’re serving you and if they’re helping you develop MORE empowering beliefs.
When you are in a state of gratitude and appreciation, I promise you more and more beautiful things will come into your life. I encourage you all to build more positive beliefs, develop self-love, and trust in yourself to reach success.
Third secret to alignment: Leaning into trust and forgetting the how.
Do you ever find yourself asking these questions:
How do I start a business?
How do I lose weight?
How do I improve my relationship?
How do I figure out what I want?
I cannot stress this enough but in order to reach success, you HAVE to stop getting so stuck in the how.
When you get stuck in the how, you become overwhelmed, stressed, and lose focus on how to take action. To get the result you want, you have to block yourself from the solution.
Guess what? You do not need to have it allllll figured out ahead of time.
Release the how and become aware of where you are without the answer. Let things flow and trust yourself.
My main business tips for you.
Tip #1: MINDSET
If you are not in alignment and the right mindset, no strategy is going to get you the results you want. If you want to have fun making money, mindset is key. You don't need to have all the action steps but you do need to have the self-belief to step into success.
Tip #2: CONSISTENCY
The beautiful thing about consistency is that it can look different for everybody. To some people, consistency means posting every single day but for others, it depends on what their business calls for. You get to decide what's best for your business and what will drive the most success.
TIP #3: INVESTING
An investment is something you know you're supposed to do. It feels right and you know your business will thrive with it. Take the chance with different investments whether it's for yourself or your business.
TIP #4: OUTSOURCING
Outsourcing helps take so many extra things off my plate so that I get to focus more on what I love, which is coaching and creating. If it's not your zone of genius, then don’t handle it. Pass it along to someone else for better results and better success.
TIP #5: FIND YOUR PLATFORM
You need to find the platform that works best for you and your business and then go all in with it. Social media is the best place to get referrals so figure it out over time and see which drives you the most success.
Alignment to Succeed: How I Achieved Six Figures in My First Year of Business With Ease and Flow: The Bottomline
I hope this episode truly helps you find success in your own business and focus on what's important. I’m so happy I got to share my success story with you all and I encourage you to take my tips and implement them into your business. Remember, success is a process and it's different for everybody but you'll get there once you step into alignment and awareness. For more on aligned success, you can book a consult call for my Soul Aligned Mastermind!
To hear more about how I achieved six figures in my first year, don’t forget to tune in to episode 58 of the Soulfully Confident Podcast.
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About your host
My name is Emily Elizabeth, I am a life and confidence coach, and I am ready to help you take back your confidence and feel in control of your life.
I love helping women get out of the victim mentality, find their self-worth, and reconnect with themselves so they can not only improve themselves but all their relationships. When I am not creating content for my clients and programs, you can find me on a spontaneous trip with my husband, working out, curled up with my journal, or spending time enjoying the outdoors.
What I want to do for you all today is a little guided meditation, visualizations, and affirmations that I say a lot to myself and guide my clients through as well.