Episode show notes
In episode 69 of the Soulfully Confident Podcast, we are going to finish breaking down the topic of how to love your partner more. Loving your partner more is all about shifting your beliefs and changing your perception. To learn how you can do this and fall more and more in love with your partner every day, stay tuned!
But before we dive right in, let me introduce myself in case this is your first visit. Welcome to the Soulfully Confident Podcast! I’m your host, Emily Elizabeth, creator of the Soulfully Abundant Group Coaching program and certified Life Coach. This podcast is for the person who feels insecure, lost, and wants more from life but feels stuck. It is for the person who is ready to claim their confidence, self-worth, and take back control of their life. In this podcast, we will cover topics including self-love, managing your emotions, reconnecting in your relationships, and even manifestation. Remember, you are loved, you are worthy, and you are so capable of anything you want to achieve. Let’s jump in!
Check out the points below to learn more about loving your partner. For even more details on each point, listen to ALL of episode 69 of the Soulfully Confident Podcast on your preferred streaming platform!
It’s your choice to believe what you want to believe.
You know those negative thoughts that sometimes come up about your significant other? Do you really want to believe those?
I DOUBT it!
Why would you want to believe negative painful things about the person you chose to spend the rest of your life with. You have to give yourself the opportunity to tell a different story, to believe the more positive thoughts, and to rewrite your story.
You have to get the words out to change your story. Write in a journal what you want to believe about your partner and what you want to happen because the more you tell yourself it, the more it becomes true. The perception you have on the person you love is built by you and only you.
In this FREE 3 day training, I will share with you exactly how I went FROM: insecure, 'fake it until I make it' mentality, and very lost in my relationship TO: crushing my goals, feeling in control of my emotions, totally empowered to go after what I want, and to being in a truly secure and satisfying relationship.
What happens when you love your partner more.
Ever since me and my husband have been practicing this work, we get to come together in a completely different way. We are SO much more patient with each other and so much more silly.
Our communication has improved and we know how to let things go. (That was a BIG one)...
You HAVE to learn how to let sh*t go! Think about how many times you've gotten into a fight with your partner over the smallest thing ever and you both sit on it for days. Next time that happens, think if it's really worth it because the bottom line is, it's probably not.
When you love them more and follow these steps, you'll judge yourself less, feel less resentment and frustrations, and allow yourself to be happy. As you watch your story change, it allows you to communicate it so much more calmly, clearly, and lovingly to your partner.
Exercise to love your partner more.
I like to call this the appreciation of love rampage.
A love rampage is one where you sit down and start writing all the things you like, love, and appreciate about your significant other.
Think about what about them brings you joy, makes you laugh, and makes you smile. This might be a little hard if you're struggling to love your partner more but just ease into it and reconnect with the things you fell in love with at the beginning of your relationship.
Respect the journey!
Force yourself to lean into appreciation because it gets easier and easier after that. Get your thoughts out on paper instead of creating an unnecessary situation in your relationship.
Part 2: How to Love Your Partner More The Bottomline
I hope this episode teaches you how to love your partner more and understand your own thoughts around your relationship. Appreciation is key in any relationship and it takes time but once you get there, the work is all worth it.
To hear more about loving your partner more and leaning into appreciation, don’t forget to tune in to episode 69 of the Soulfully Confident Podcast.
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About your host
My name is Emily Elizabeth, I am a life and confidence coach, and I am ready to help you take back your confidence and feel in control of your life.
I love helping women get out of the victim mentality, find their self-worth, and reconnect with themselves so they can not only improve themselves but all their relationships. When I am not creating content for my clients and programs, you can find me on a spontaneous trip with my husband, working out, curled up with my journal, or spending time enjoying the outdoors.
What I want to do for you all today is a little guided meditation, visualizations, and affirmations that I say a lot to myself and guide my clients through as well.